Read Matthew 18:21-35. Usually when this parable is read and forgiveness is discussed, someone in particular comes to mind. Did this happen for you when this passage was read? What kind of sins do you imagine Peter had in mind when he asked Jesus this question? What comes to your mind?

What are some of the reasons we find it difficult to forgive someone who has wronged or hurt us in some way?

What does the first servant in the parable ask for? Can he make good on his promise? How is this similar to ways we approach God?

What three things does the master initially do for the servant (v. 27)? Why is each act significant?

How does the first servant’s lack of mercy impact others? What is the end result for him? How does your experience of God’s mercy impact your willingness and your ability to forgive others?

C.S. Lewis said, “Forgiveness is a beautiful word until you have something to forgive.” Think about the contrast that forgiveness creates. When we need to be forgiven for something, forgiveness is beautiful and we want mercy. Yet, often times when we need to forgive someone else, we are hesitant because we want justice. Have you ever felt this? When have you been given mercy, and how did it feel? When have you had to show mercy, and how did it feel?

How might a lack of forgiveness manifest itself in our lives? How might we act toward someone if we do not forgive them? Does forgiving mean forgetting? Does forgiving mean you will not bring it up again? Does forgiving mean the wound is completely healed?

Think of a person who is hard to forgive. How can Jesus’ parable guide in you that relationship? What is one thing you will do this week to extend mercy and forgiveness to another person as you’ve received it through Christ?